Dads & Doulas
Doulas work with dads, never replacing them or pushing them aside. The father has a special, intimate attachment to the mother and baby that the doula will never have. A father's presence alone is often a significant source of encouragement and support to the mother.
A doula works with the father, encouraging him to participate in the birth based on his and the mother's comfort levels. Some fathers prefer a high level of involvement; others simply wish to hold the mother's hand and offer verbal encouragement. The father is second in importance only to the mother, and often finds that he needs a bit of support and encouragement from the doula at times.
As your doula, I will adapt my support based on your wishes and the father's comfort level. I will work with the father, demonstrating comfort techniques and offering suggestions, to help him participate to the degree that he wishes.
For more information on how doulas and dads work together, click here.
